“Get To” vs “Have To”: The Mindset Shift That Changes Everything

Most people live in “I have to…” mode, and wonder why they feel burned out. Flip that to “I get to… ,” and suddenly the same task hits different. It’s not fluff. It’s fuel.

In this episode, Dr. Matthew Arau explains why the words we use shape the way we lead, connect, and show up. It’s not about being fake-positive. It’s about choosing power over pressure.

If you’ve been grinding through your days on autopilot, this conversation is your permission slip to stop. Shift your mindset. Change your impact.

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About the author

Teevee

Teevee Aguirre is a storyteller, artist, and podcasting dad on a mission to become a better ancestor. He writes about life, fatherhood, and the beautifully messy journey of personal growth—wins, losses, and everything in between. A firm believer that struggle makes the best stories, he embraces his role as Father, Son, Super Model—not on the runway, but in the art of being a role model (a title his kids may or may not co-sign).

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