No Monuments or Buildings Named After Me Please

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Maybe I am strange. Scratch that. I am strange by most people’s accounts. Some may even say I am unique if they feel like being friendly.

But I have no burning desire to see my name engraved on a statue or have building named after me. And despite being a man, I don’t have any need to keep having children until I have a boy simply to carry on my name.

Trust me, I have a HUGE ego. You would think that I would keep banging out children until I had this boy. Yet, I don’t.

I am a Mexican (like cross the border, OMG, where’s your green card type of Mexican). Every time I talk to older people I inevitably get hit with the “So are you going to keep trying?”


There are two lovely ladies that will do a fine job carrying on my words and beliefs. Yes, I recognize that they may marry and eventually lose my family’s name. But it doesn’t concern nor consume me.

I draw a great deal of satisfaction knowing I have impacted some people’s lives. I learned a lot from some brilliant friends I have come in contact with and done my part to carry on their teaching by sharing. I am truly at peace and content with that and that’s that! So no, I will not keep trying to have a boy!

Besides, who would really be able to take “Teevee National Monument” serious?

About the author

Teevee Aguirre

Teevee Aguirre is a storyteller, artist, and podcasting dad on a mission to become a better ancestor. He writes about life, fatherhood, and the beautifully messy journey of personal growth—wins, losses, and everything in between. A firm believer that struggle makes the best stories, he embraces his role as Father, Son, Super Model—not on the runway, but in the art of being a role model (a title his kids may or may not co-sign).

By Teevee Aguirre