I’m a bad boy.

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I’m a bad boy.

Last weekend I was at my parents’ house to bathe my pops. We got into a heated discussion.

He said something that triggered me, and I lost my composure. For the record, he’s an 80+ year-old man and always says things that are triggering.

I know this, expect this and I usually let his (and my mother’s) snarky remarks slide off me. On normal days. But that day was different.

I wasn’t my usual patient self. So I screamed. He screamed.

Then I stormed out of the house—no bath for him. I slammed the door on the way out, just to make sure he knew I wasn’t happy with him.

Today I returned to bathe him.

I apologized for being disrespectful. He apologized. I asked if he remembered why I lost my ish. He said no. So I reminded him.

He said he still didn’t remember but was sorry for his comments.

I finished bathing him, got him dressed, hugged him, and kissed him. Te quiero, papi.

I’m a decent boy, maybe.

About the author

Teevee

Teevee Aguirre is a storyteller, artist, and podcasting dad on a mission to become a better ancestor. He writes about life, fatherhood, and the beautifully messy journey of personal growth—wins, losses, and everything in between. A firm believer that struggle makes the best stories, he embraces his role as Father, Son, Super Model—not on the runway, but in the art of being a role model (a title his kids may or may not co-sign).

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