On Fatherhood, Manhood & Becoming Better Ancestors.
“Design can be art. Design can be aesthetics. Design is so simple, that’s why it is so complicated.” – Paul Rand
I've quit more times than I can count throughout my life. I love the idea of learning new skills and becoming better. But then my insecurities, financing, or logistics become too difficult to bear.
Almost 3 years ago to the date I put into effect some really big changes in my life. I signed up for several classes and trainings that were going to push me out of my comfort zone more than ever before. Salsa. Improv. Boxing. Communication. I was not happy with who I was and had to make some HUGE decisions if I was ever to get to where I wanted to go in my life. There was just no way I could...
I hated smiling in photos. I didn't like my smile and made sure never to do it. I felt like I looked like an idiot.
It's not hard to avoid smiling if you're unhappy with your life. It was the last year of my marriage, and I was going through old photos of myself with my daughters.
These are really me, not AI. But AI would say that too, right? Fight artificial with authenticity. Choose O.I... Organic Intelligence.
"Dad, I'm a Stoic. You made me a Stoic!"
It's true. I have been intentionally programming my girls from the very beginning.
Overcoming a breakup and personal fears, I took a bold step into my first salsa class, a journey from anxiety-ridden solitude in my car to a joyous, communal dance floor.
On Fatherhood, Manhood & Becoming Better Ancestors.